Sunday, September 7, 2014

Our great migration to the mid-west begins....and we discover sweet and simple blessings.

This is a long post, but I wanted this experience documented for my family, so skip or enjoy...your choice.
We packed up, locked up, and left our little house in Virginia to head towards the West, our new place of residence.  Friday night we were just planning to drive to D.C. which was less then a couple hours away.  Our plan was to spend the night in D.C., then spend Saturday in Philadelphia, Sunday in New York City, then on Monday start driving towards Colorado.  We had been very good with this move, planned out all our stops and even made advance hotel reservations at all our stops.  How does that saying go..."the best laid plans...".  Friday night, when we were 5 minutest from our hotel...my trusty car, Wanda the traveling Honda, called it quits at a stop light.  Just like that!  No warning! boom.  We thought it was the transmission, but weren't sure.  I could see all our awesome plans for the weekend (Independence Hall, Statue of Liberty, NYC, Mount Rushmore) slipping away into a pit of waiting for our car to be repaired.  We were so, extremely, sad.
Of course, this all had to happen on the weekend we were moving...and it couldn't have happened weeks before when we had time to spare to do something about it.  Isn't that how it always goes...your car picks the most "convenient" time to call it quits?  Bright and early Saturday morning, Matt started making some phone calls.  He got hold of an Aamco garage that took pity on us and was willing to look at our car first thing.  We got it over there, they looked at it...and yay!  It wasn't the costly repair of replacing a transmission.  It was a couple of sensors and the connecting arms that needed to be replaced...still a chunk of change, but not nearly as expensive as a new transmission.  Blessing number 1.  Well the parts had to be ordered and the garage was closed on Sunday (rightly so), so that meant our car had no hope of being fixed until Monday.  Now during all this we had decided to do a partial "do it yourself" move.  We had about 1000 pounds of our belongings packed between my car and Matt's truck...with barely enough room left for humanity to sit.  4 kids were with me, and 1 kid was with Matt.  There was no way we could off load enough stuff so we could all fit in Matt's truck.  Problem #1. Next, we only had our hotel in DC for Friday night.  Our next hotel was up in Newark.  Problem #2.  As we are talking about this at the garage, we look up and see a rental car agency across the parking lot. Angels sing, blessing #2.  We decided to see if they had a rental car big enough for our family, so we could still head up to Philadelphia, NYC, then we would have to back track back down to D.C., pick up our car and try to make our next hotel Monday night in Ohio.  As we are standing in line, we over hear them renting out their last mini-van.  Devastation starts to sink in...but we are still holding on to a sliver of hope and a prayer.  We had already invested a lot of money into this weekend, and we didn't want it to go to waste.  We talk to the agent, and he has 1 last vehicle that would work for us.  A big, black, full size SUV.  He can rent it to us cheap...for the whole weekend he gave it to us for the price of 1 day.  He was so awesome!  Blessing #3.   So we start to try to salvage our weekend plans.  The biggest time crunch we are facing was our Independence hall tickets.  We had 3 hours to get there 1 hour before our tour.  We rush to the hotel, pack up, rearrange Matt's truck and long-term park it, load up kids and hit the road.  Through the amazing kindness of a Park Ranger, our tickets were waiting for us and we made it to Independence Hall without a minute to spare, Blessing #4.  We were able to spend a lovely evening with my Sister-in-laws wonderful parents.  Blessing #5. And we made it to our fun in New York City, when we thought for sure just the day before that we wouldn't!  Blessing #6.  Our final blessing, because all good things come in 7's, right?  Monday we drive back to D.C...now naive me, I thought that the garage would get parts and start working right away.  After the 4 hour drive to D.C. we would be able to pick up our fixed car and drive off into the afternoon, right?  Not!  We get to D.C. about 1pm, after many phone conversations with the garage, and find they haven't even started on our car. Yikes!  Our hotel is in Cleveland Ohio....we didn't have any place to stay in D.C.  Ok that's not true...we have some very dear friends in the area, and we were so close to calling them up and begging for a room!  At 2pm they finally start on  our car, with no promises that it would be done.  We set ourselves a time limit.  We figured as long as the car was done by 5pm, we could make it to our hotel in Ohio in a reasonable amount of time.  If it wasn't done by 5pm...then we would cancel our hotel and call our friends and redo our routes and stops.  BLESSING # 7!  With not a minute to spare, I mean, Matt was literally online about to cancel our hotel, when the garage called and said our car was done.  We checked out the work, paid, re-loaded and arranged all our junk and loaded kids and we were on our way by 530pm.  We pulled into Cleveland, OH just after mid-night.  We were back on schedule, headed towards Mount Rushmore, Colorado and our new home!
Through out this experience I learned there is still goodness and kindness in the world.  I don't want to know how many people's cars got bumped at the garage so they could work on ours first.  Kindness.  The park ranger didn't have to bend the rules and hold our tickets in Philadelphia instead of releasing them to the public like their policy states.  Kindness.  Mr. Car rental guy didn't have to give us a screaming good deal on a rental.  Kindness.  Most of all, I can't count the number of people who stopped to check on me, I lost track.  As I was sitting on a small stretch of grass with a little shade, in front of a strip mall next to the garage our car was at, all our luggage, car seats and kids spread out around me.  So many people stopped to see if I was ok.  I am sure they thought I was either homeless (which technically I was) or abandoned.   It is very humbling being at other's mercy (the garage) with no where really to go.  I was very touched during this trip, by the many kind acts that were blessings to our family.
 So exhausted Monday, from waiting for our Wanda to be fixed.
 What we looked like sitting on the curb....
 What we looked liked sitting on the curb...waiting and waiting...
Finally!  Wanda is done, and good as new, we hope!
Wanda and Willy Nissan are ready to blow this joint!

Thursday, August 21, 2014

Memorial Day weekend: Last weekend in Virginia

Our last weekend in Virginia was Memorial Day weekend.  So we needed to celebrate, because the next week we would be busy cleaning, packing up, and hitting the road heading towards Colorado (with a few detours).
 One of our first stops was James Town...the first settlement in Virginia.
As the story goes, the Colonists really struggled, but they were saved by Pocahontas and her tribe.
I have a picture of the girls with this statue of Pocahontas, but wanted to complete it with the boys!
 Cute boys!
 Next we hopped over to the Revolutionary War era and toured Yorktown.
Here we are at Surrender's field....where the Revolutionary war pretty much came to an end, and the New America was born.
 There is a cool base at the mouth of the Chesapeake bay, called Ft. Monroe.  We stopped to check it out.


 The boys of course, found some stick guns and started defending the Fort.

 After that we headed to our favorite beach of all time...Virginia Beach!
We have been coming here since Hannah was a baby...so 12 years now.
We should probably buy real estate here...ha ha.
 Jack loves a good watermelon.



Anya scored on this trip and found a mostly in tact conk shell.
Pretty rare in these parts!

 Love these boys and their "ogles".
They love a good beach!
 One of our Virginia Beach traditions is dinner at our favorite pizza joint.
Planet Pizza!
Complete with alien decor.
We discovered this joint our first trip to VA beach...so we have been coming here off and on for 12 years now.  The kids love it and get excited for dinner every time.

 After dinner we walk up the street and browse the souvenir shops...eventually ending up at our favorite frozen Custard place.  The best in the world besides Rita's Italian Ice and Custard....its a close race for first!  Anyway, we get our Kohr Bros. cones and then walk back up the boardwalk along the beach back to our car.
It's one of our favorite family destinations...and we are sad we probably won't be back for some time.
It sure has treated us well, and it sure made our last weekend in Virginia special!

Dad's Graduation!

We are Done!
Our whole purpose for living in Virginia for 9 short months, was for Matt to attend "law school" again.
He went back to school for a Master of Laws.

 Getting ready for graduation.
No cap and gown this time, but he dressed in his formal Blues
 His diploma awaits....

 Hannah decided that while we were waiting for graduation was the perfect time to compose a piece of music...
 Finally his name is called!
Diploma recieved!
Successful!
He is now the recipient of a Master of Laws degree with a special emphasis in Administrative Law


It was a very sunny spot for a photo.  The kids couldn't stand it!

 Matt and "Malcolm". 
They actually went to OSU together.
Small world!!

 So proud of this guy!  He worked really hard, and his hard work paid off.
His final academic article or "Thesis" that he had to write to complete graduation was picked up for publication in a law journal.  It should be published sometime in 2015.



Braces are off!!! and Hannah has a concert!!!

On Cinco de Mayo, Anya got her braces off!  This was a very happy day!!
Especially for mom and dad, because that meant we did not have to transfer to another Orthodontist in Colorado!  Yay for finishing treatments!!

Before and After.

Our orthodontist, Dr. Cloth, was seriously the best!
He always had a funny story, ran a tight ship so we were always seen on time, and when we left he gave Anya this awesome gift package.  It was full of all the things your not supposed to eat with braces on.  So fun, she loved it!
First bite into a carrot.  This girl loves carrots, and she missed not eating them.
That night, after dinner, we had a "Braces Off" party!
We had an assortment of nuts, popcorn, caramel apples, gummy and sticky candy...everything off limits is now back on the menu. 

 Dig in!
 Hannah's last concert of the year.
We will miss this Orchestra program.  Mrs. Finnegan was awesome!


 Good job playing beautifully and being so dedicated to practicing Hannah!




Some cute pics...

Here are just some random pics, that I felt like give a little peek into our lives.  At least my life with the boys...
 Our house was very cold!  I mean freezing.  So we always cuddled in the mornings under warm blankets until we were warmed up enough to eat breakfast.  Here is one of our early morning selfies.
 Hunter is our builder.
He built this building all on his own, I was very impressed.
 Moving day arrived.  Hoping they take care of all my pottery!



 Dinner time with no furniture :)
We lived in our house for about 3 weeks with only camp chairs, air mattresses, and 1 old T.V. (I'm talking its over 20 years old and still kicking).  We had an awesome friend take mercy on us and bring over some bean bag chairs for us to use...which was perfect!


 got to take advantage of the summer days before we move!




All tuckered out.  With no couch to lay on to rest, a camp chair will do just fine.